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    00:06 My name is Akil. 00:09 When I was 18, my family moved to a new city. 00:14 It was bad enough leaving my friends behind. 00:18 But now, 00:19 I wasn’t sure if I could make new ones. 00:27 My parents seemed really happy. 00:32 I didn’t want to make them feel bad 00:34 by telling them how I really felt. 00:39 The new school wasn’t much better 00:49 until I met Cameron. 00:53 He seemed like a pretty cool guy. 00:59 Soon, his friends became my friends. 01:07 . . . something that David believed was true, 01:09 he actually proved it by the association that he kept. 01:12 We think about one of the closest friendships 01:14 recorded in the Scriptures, 01:16 and it was that of David and Jonathan. 01:19 What was it that David and Jonathan shared in common? 01:22 It wasn’t their age. 01:24 Akil, you were texting in the meeting. 01:26 I shouldn’t have sent the text. 01:29 I’m sorry. 01:30 But Cameron is a good person. 01:34 He might even study one day. 01:36 I understand that, Akil. 01:38 But we all have to be careful with how much time 01:41 we spend with people that don’t love Jehovah. 01:43 See, their values are just different. 01:46 You know what Proverbs 13:20 says: 01:49 ‘Walk with those who are wise.’ 01:51 So why don’t you seek out friends who love Jehovah? 01:54 And you will make friends that last a lifetime. 01:57 How am I supposed to do that? 01:58 There’s no one my age in the congregation. 02:02 Akil, good friends can come from unexpected places. 02:04 Mom, I had good friends 02:08 —back home. 02:15 We all felt bad that night. 02:26 The next day, 02:28 Cameron posted pictures of a party he had. 02:32 My parents were right. 02:38 I broke off my association with Cameron 02:41 and his friends, 02:43 but I still felt 02:45 lost. 02:48 Hi, Akil? 02:50 Do you have field service plans for Saturday? 02:52 Ah, no. 02:54 Good. Now you do. 02:55 I’ll see you at the 9:30 a.m. meeting, OK? 03:17 After service, 03:20 Max had the group over for refreshments. 03:25 Did you take these? 03:27 Do you like them? 03:29 Yeah. 03:30 My wife, she was always the photographer. 03:32 She loved photography. 03:34 And then one anniversary she went out and bought me a camera, 03:37 and from that moment on, I was hooked too. 03:41 Time flies so quickly. 03:43 It’s hard to believe she passed away 12 years ago now. 03:48 I’m sorry. 03:49 It’s OK. 03:51 But you still take pictures? 03:52 I do. I really enjoy photography. 03:55 There’s something about being close 03:57 to Jehovah’s creation. 04:00 It reminds me 04:02 that we’re never really alone, you know? 04:10 Good friends can come from unexpected places 04:14 and unexpected ages. 04:17 As I spent more time with Max, 04:19 I realized it was just like David and Jonathan. 04:25 Their friendship was based, 04:27 not on age, but on their love for Jehovah. 04:32 And they helped each other. 04:41 And with Max’s help, 04:42 I was able to keep a good spiritual routine 04:45 without interruption. 04:47 Although we weren’t the same age, 04:49 Max became my good friend. 04:52 I just needed to see what was right 04:55 in front of me.