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    00:01 Thousands of our sisters have been active 00:03 for many years in that “large army” of women. 00:07 Bertille Kupelian, 00:09 a special pioneer in West Virginia, in the United States, 00:13 entered the full-time service in 1958. 00:17 In that time, she’s helped more than 60 people to baptism. 00:22 How has her outlook toward the ministry 00:24 kept her going for almost 60 years? 00:34 My father was opposed 00:38 to the truth as I was growing up, 00:40 but my mother was very, very zealous. 00:45 I knew the things my mother was teaching me was the truth. 00:49 I knew that this was what I was going to do. 00:53 And it was not easy, but we did it. 00:58 I was Daddy’s girl, 01:01 but my mom made sure 01:04 that I and my siblings knew the truth. 01:07 And she studied with us when no other children 01:11 in the congregation had Bible studies at home. 01:16 Of course, we kind of kicked and didn’t like it, 01:20 but I was glad she did it. 01:23 My mother was a very, very positive person, 01:26 and although she had the opposition, 01:30 I saw how she dealt with it 01:32 and how firm and determined she was. 01:35 And that was something she taught us. 01:39 It’s a mind-set. 01:41 You know, your mind is a wonderful thing. 01:45 It can really influence you toward good or maybe not so good. 01:50 And so then, I was determined in my mind 01:54 that I was going to serve Jehovah then. 01:59 In our congregation, there were brothers and sisters of the anointed. 02:03 They were always very kind to me, 02:06 and they encouraged me. 02:09 I worked in service with them. 02:12 And I thought, ‘That’s the way I want to be.’ 02:17 Children like attention. 02:20 And so then, if you give them attention 02:22 —you talk with them 02:24 and ask if you could work with them in the ministry 02:27 and help them prepare a presentation 02:30 and go over it and over it 02:32 so that they’re ready for the ministry 02:35 —then they’ll enjoy it more. 02:39 That was one of the things that the anointed 02:41 did in the congregation where I was. 02:43 They paid attention to me, and I loved it. 02:50 How I learned to teach was I think about the person, 02:53 and I think about their situation, 02:56 and I try to think in my mind what they are thinking, 03:01 and I work on that 03:04 and think of what kind of scriptures I can find to help them. 03:08 And so then, 03:09 I try to pattern our studies 03:14 to incorporate some of those things. 03:20 There are always challenges. 03:23 Some of the winters right on the lake where I lived were very harsh. 03:29 And my trailer was parked in such a way that every time 03:33 the wind blew and the snow came and the ice came, 03:36 it sealed the door. 03:38 And so then, I carried a big knife in my car, 03:41 and I would have to cut around the door 03:43 to get the door to open —break the ice seal. 03:48 It was interesting. 03:51 I had some opposition in the territories, 03:54 and one was this lady who was very irate. 03:56 And she went to kick me, and she kicked me right in the stomach, 04:00 and so then, anyway, I dismissed myself. 04:04 Then, a while later, it was time to work the territory again. 04:08 Nobody wanted to go there, and we didn’t have do-not-calls, 04:11 I don’t think, at that time, at least there wasn’t any in the territory. 04:15 So then anyway, I called by and I mentioned to her: 04:19 “Why, hello there. 04:21 I know I’ve had the opportunity to talk with you before.” 04:23 Yes, she remembered. 04:25 And I said, “Well, perhaps you were having a bad day that day.” 04:31 I hit a lull when I had few Bible studies, 04:34 and so I prayed diligently to Jehovah: 04:38 “Jehovah, help me. I need Bible studies.” 04:40 And then you have to be out there looking for them. 04:43 Well, I’ve lost my father, my mother, 04:47 my sister, my brother. 04:50 Well, naturally you feel at a loss, 04:55 but Jehovah strengthened me, and the friends strengthened me, 04:59 and I kept busy in the ministry. 05:03 But again, it goes back to that mind-set. 05:05 Are you going to let the challenge beat you, 05:07 or are you going to beat the challenge? 05:10 You and Jehovah can beat the challenge. 05:15 You know, discouragement is one of Satan’s biggest tools. 05:19 And I always tell myself, 05:22 ‘I’m not going to let Satan beat me down.’ 05:25 As far as health is concerned, my everyday health is very good. 05:30 But I have a leg that drives me crazy. 05:34 I think back to Jacob. 05:38 He served Jehovah with a limp. 05:40 And then I think of Paul. 05:45 And so then, those things keep you humble. 05:51 I’ve prayed and prayed and prayed about it, 05:53 but just like with the apostle Paul, 05:55 it didn’t disappear. 05:58 And so then, I just say: “Patch me up till Armageddon. 06:01 It’ll disappear then.” 06:04 If your mind is made up that this is what you’re going to do, 06:08 this is your life, this is what Jehovah wants you to do, 06:12 and so then you do it. 06:16 I’ve seen how he’s kept me going. 06:22 You know that I’ve needed work; I’ve needed money; 06:26 I’ve needed strength. 06:28 I’ve needed companionship 06:30 because a lot of times I’m in the ministry by myself. 06:33 I talk to Jehovah. 06:35 And so then, he’s always there for me. 06:38 I definitely want to keep pioneering 06:42 or serving Jehovah the best I can, 06:44 regardless of what comes up. 06:48 There is nothing more joyful 06:51 than to see that you have helped somebody to live forever. 06:57 Well, how much better could it be? 07:06 Sister Kupelian had a profound effect on those she witnessed to. 07:10 I know this because she found me in the door-to-door ministry 07:15 when I was 14 years old. 07:17 At that age, I had the goal to be a doctor. 07:21 One night after the meeting, Bertille said to me, 07:24 “Well, you know, in the new world, 07:27 we won’t need doctors because Jesus will do all the healing.” 07:30 Honestly, that hit me hard 07:34 because I wanted to help people as well as provide for my mother. 07:38 But she added, 07:40 “What we will need are teachers.” 07:43 I thought that was a good idea. 07:45 Still focused on a career, I had one type of teacher in mind, 07:50 but she had another. 07:52 Through her patience and reasoning, 07:54 she helped me to become the most important kind of teacher 07:58 —a teacher of God’s Word. 08:01 Is there someone like Sister Kupelian in your congregation? 08:06 We are grateful for these sisters’ zealous spirit 08:10 and for the personal interest they show toward us. 08:13 And we’re sure Jehovah values them like we do.